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		<title>By: Delia</title>
		<link>http://citmedia.org/blog/2007/07/28/note-to-facebook-acquaintances-please-dont-message-me-there/comment-page-1/#comment-1751</link>
		<dc:creator>Delia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Aug 2007 02:03:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jon,

Just to clarify, I was just trying to solve Dan&#039;s problem... I&#039;m NOT on Facebook or any of these things... (for the sort of reasons you mentioned at the end -- just way too much personally identifiable information for not good reason).  But even if I have no plans to join, I find it interesting and full of potential: by far the most promising of this kind of projects.

But like Dan, I think it&#039;s bad that Facebook has access to people&#039;s personal information for data mining or any of those things... I don&#039;t think this is something people would just give away if they had a *choice* in the matter.

That&#039;s why I was asking Dan why aren&#039;t there projects like that? Is there some good reason for it that I just can&#039;t see? A non-profit (that would stay that way) would seem like the best way to win people for the long run: it could run ads or whatever it needed to do to raise the money to run the site and keep making improvements.  And it could of course invite others do improvements, like Facebook does -- this is what really got my attention about Facebook... And all would be determined by what users really want (through voting).

Delia

P.S. Something like what craigslist *claims* to be: a public trust with a philanthropic mindset. Why don&#039;t *you* start something like this, Jon?:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jon,</p>
<p>Just to clarify, I was just trying to solve Dan&#8217;s problem&#8230; I&#8217;m NOT on Facebook or any of these things&#8230; (for the sort of reasons you mentioned at the end &#8212; just way too much personally identifiable information for not good reason).  But even if I have no plans to join, I find it interesting and full of potential: by far the most promising of this kind of projects.</p>
<p>But like Dan, I think it&#8217;s bad that Facebook has access to people&#8217;s personal information for data mining or any of those things&#8230; I don&#8217;t think this is something people would just give away if they had a *choice* in the matter.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s why I was asking Dan why aren&#8217;t there projects like that? Is there some good reason for it that I just can&#8217;t see? A non-profit (that would stay that way) would seem like the best way to win people for the long run: it could run ads or whatever it needed to do to raise the money to run the site and keep making improvements.  And it could of course invite others do improvements, like Facebook does &#8212; this is what really got my attention about Facebook&#8230; And all would be determined by what users really want (through voting).</p>
<p>Delia</p>
<p>P.S. Something like what craigslist *claims* to be: a public trust with a philanthropic mindset. Why don&#8217;t *you* start something like this, Jon?:)</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel</title>
		<link>http://citmedia.org/blog/2007/07/28/note-to-facebook-acquaintances-please-dont-message-me-there/comment-page-1/#comment-1750</link>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Aug 2007 23:15:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, I thought I was the only who wasn&#039;t into Facebook?  I have friends who think it&#039;s the coolest thing, and I even joined, but I don&#039;t see the use of it.  I do keep getting the random friend invitations, too.  I even got one from someone I haven&#039;t seen literally in 15 years or more.  I didn&#039;t even figure out who it was for a while, because she was just an acquaintance at best.  The whole thing is kind of weird.  I&#039;m happy to see I&#039;m not the only one who doesn&#039;t love Facebook!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, I thought I was the only who wasn&#8217;t into Facebook?  I have friends who think it&#8217;s the coolest thing, and I even joined, but I don&#8217;t see the use of it.  I do keep getting the random friend invitations, too.  I even got one from someone I haven&#8217;t seen literally in 15 years or more.  I didn&#8217;t even figure out who it was for a while, because she was just an acquaintance at best.  The whole thing is kind of weird.  I&#8217;m happy to see I&#8217;m not the only one who doesn&#8217;t love Facebook!</p>
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		<title>By: Jon Garfunkel</title>
		<link>http://citmedia.org/blog/2007/07/28/note-to-facebook-acquaintances-please-dont-message-me-there/comment-page-1/#comment-1749</link>
		<dc:creator>Jon Garfunkel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Aug 2007 04:39:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Delia-- well, having too many facebook friends is not a problem for me at this point...

But note that FaceBook has solved a problem which Dan&#039;s implementation of WordPress hasn&#039;t-- &quot;whitelisting.&quot; Anyone on your whitelist (your friends) can write on your wall. But citmedia.org *still* throws me in the spam queue if I dare put two links in the blog comments.

I understand there&#039;s a lot of support for the &quot;small pieces loosely joined&quot; architecture of blogging, but when you have &quot;small pieces better joined&quot; of facebook, there starts to be no contest. (how many serious bloggers have &quot;loosely joined&quot; to an authentication service?)

As for who owns your data... that&#039;s another discussion if you can export &amp; delete at will, then you own it somewhat. If Facebook wants to mine your data, well, they can and will. I wasn&#039;t so worried about the data ownership as I was about meme-masking: kleenex-as-tissues, blogs-as-online-personal-publishing, facebook-as-social-networking.

Also, to return to our senses, the major problems have nothing to do with popular people having to deal with too many friend requests; it&#039;s sexual predators joining and accessing a lot of personal information.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Delia&#8211; well, having too many facebook friends is not a problem for me at this point&#8230;</p>
<p>But note that FaceBook has solved a problem which Dan&#8217;s implementation of WordPress hasn&#8217;t&#8211; &#8220;whitelisting.&#8221; Anyone on your whitelist (your friends) can write on your wall. But citmedia.org *still* throws me in the spam queue if I dare put two links in the blog comments.</p>
<p>I understand there&#8217;s a lot of support for the &#8220;small pieces loosely joined&#8221; architecture of blogging, but when you have &#8220;small pieces better joined&#8221; of facebook, there starts to be no contest. (how many serious bloggers have &#8220;loosely joined&#8221; to an authentication service?)</p>
<p>As for who owns your data&#8230; that&#8217;s another discussion if you can export &amp; delete at will, then you own it somewhat. If Facebook wants to mine your data, well, they can and will. I wasn&#8217;t so worried about the data ownership as I was about meme-masking: kleenex-as-tissues, blogs-as-online-personal-publishing, facebook-as-social-networking.</p>
<p>Also, to return to our senses, the major problems have nothing to do with popular people having to deal with too many friend requests; it&#8217;s sexual predators joining and accessing a lot of personal information.</p>
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		<title>By: Delia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Delia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jul 2007 20:19:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dan, I&#039;m wondering if a non-profit that would let the users to (collectively) own the aggregated data could work.  I mean, why *aren&#039;t* there any projects like this? You&#039;d think people would flock to something like that if the had the option.  D.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dan, I&#8217;m wondering if a non-profit that would let the users to (collectively) own the aggregated data could work.  I mean, why *aren&#8217;t* there any projects like this? You&#8217;d think people would flock to something like that if the had the option.  D.</p>
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		<title>By: Dan Gillmor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan Gillmor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jul 2007 19:15:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jon, I agree almost entirely with what you say. I do think Facebook has done some remarkable things, and suspect it may become the single most important such site.

Let me make my unspoken small d-democratic concern outspoken. They could become far too powerful. Like all the other social networks, they -- not the users -- own the aggregated data. That worries me, and I wish it worried more users.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jon, I agree almost entirely with what you say. I do think Facebook has done some remarkable things, and suspect it may become the single most important such site.</p>
<p>Let me make my unspoken small d-democratic concern outspoken. They could become far too powerful. Like all the other social networks, they &#8212; not the users &#8212; own the aggregated data. That worries me, and I wish it worried more users.</p>
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		<title>By: Delia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Delia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jul 2007 15:28:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jon, I&#039;m wondering if requests for friends status could be pre screened by various criteria to get them to a manageable number.  For instance, it might help a lot if you could decide that for people you haven&#039;t met in real life and who aren&#039;t involved in the same things you are, you will only consider those who live close enough to meet in person.  Or if you could set a certain number a day/week and had exclusion criteria to be applied until you got the number you had in mind.  D.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jon, I&#8217;m wondering if requests for friends status could be pre screened by various criteria to get them to a manageable number.  For instance, it might help a lot if you could decide that for people you haven&#8217;t met in real life and who aren&#8217;t involved in the same things you are, you will only consider those who live close enough to meet in person.  Or if you could set a certain number a day/week and had exclusion criteria to be applied until you got the number you had in mind.  D.</p>
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		<title>By: Jon Garfunkel</title>
		<link>http://citmedia.org/blog/2007/07/28/note-to-facebook-acquaintances-please-dont-message-me-there/comment-page-1/#comment-1745</link>
		<dc:creator>Jon Garfunkel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jul 2007 04:27:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>re: &quot;Moreover, I don’t find it terribly useful except for the bloggish feature in the center of the personalized page. That’s a not-bad summary of people’s activities, but it doesn’t compensate for all the other issues.&quot;

Hold on. The other issues you cite are solely a function of the observation that Facebook is &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; perfectly scale-free (i.e., exhibiting the power law). Like the restaurant business, you &lt;i&gt;can&lt;/i&gt; get too popular. The issues you find with facebook (being too popular) are probably not the ones that the average user doesn&#039;t have to worry about.

This, by the way, is the general math behind scale-free/power-law networks. People read Scoble because &lt;i&gt;other&lt;/i&gt; people are reading Scoble, and Scoble has a long way to go before he can max out on readers. Blogs have an intentionality to them; that is of course the thrust of citizen journalism, that one long blogger on an odd blog post may change the world. But Facebook seems to appeal much more to people&#039;s sociability. Technorati&#039;s numbers from April show a growth of 120K/month, to Facebook&#039;s 150K/month. I predict we&#039;ll see that gap widen. How about if we count abandoned blogs?

It requires too much momentum to get a blog going. You post, you beg for comments, you beg for links, and then you constantly have to post to keep it live. I joined Facebook &lt;i&gt;yesterday&lt;/i&gt;, and found 15 of my friendsco-workers (sorry I didn&#039;t get around to sending you a friend request yet :-). A few of them blog, I think. But there&#039;s diminishing returns to what people have to blog about Tom Friedman&#039;s latest column. Facebook figures that people want to organize social information-- where people are, what they&#039;re doing-- so that they can find it quicker. I already know what my 15 friends are up to quicker any other medium.

Here&#039;s another one: microformats. Where are microformats in the blog world? Who&#039;s using them? In Facebook just entered 40 movies. I remember doing this on Amazon or B&amp;N years ago, and then figuring no one would ever see them again. This is a company that just has it figured out-- and the developer platform is unstoppable.

Facebook, when you look at it, is inherently more conversational than blogs. A person&#039;s &quot;wall&quot; carries comments from the person and their friends (as compared with Friendster, where the only thread is other testimonials.)

Why do I carry on like this? (I&#039;ve been away from the citmedia blog for a few weeks and wanted to catch up). There&#039;s certainly a temptation to stick in one&#039;s comfort zone, and I suppose some (now) old-school bloggers might feel a bit afraid of the next new thing (imagine, being dismissed as an old-schooler...). I&#039;m just trying to inspire a bit of analytics.

Still, I share your unspoken small-d democratic concern about facebook-uber-alles. Something *this* good shouldn&#039;t be exclusive to one company. I&#039;d still encourage people to develop good blog-and-CMS tools.

Enough of that. I suppose that Adamic, Hargittai, boyd, et al have already dug into this...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>re: &#8220;Moreover, I don’t find it terribly useful except for the bloggish feature in the center of the personalized page. That’s a not-bad summary of people’s activities, but it doesn’t compensate for all the other issues.&#8221;</p>
<p>Hold on. The other issues you cite are solely a function of the observation that Facebook is <i>not</i> perfectly scale-free (i.e., exhibiting the power law). Like the restaurant business, you <i>can</i> get too popular. The issues you find with facebook (being too popular) are probably not the ones that the average user doesn&#8217;t have to worry about.</p>
<p>This, by the way, is the general math behind scale-free/power-law networks. People read Scoble because <i>other</i> people are reading Scoble, and Scoble has a long way to go before he can max out on readers. Blogs have an intentionality to them; that is of course the thrust of citizen journalism, that one long blogger on an odd blog post may change the world. But Facebook seems to appeal much more to people&#8217;s sociability. Technorati&#8217;s numbers from April show a growth of 120K/month, to Facebook&#8217;s 150K/month. I predict we&#8217;ll see that gap widen. How about if we count abandoned blogs?</p>
<p>It requires too much momentum to get a blog going. You post, you beg for comments, you beg for links, and then you constantly have to post to keep it live. I joined Facebook <i>yesterday</i>, and found 15 of my friendsco-workers (sorry I didn&#8217;t get around to sending you a friend request yet <img src='http://citmedia.org/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> . A few of them blog, I think. But there&#8217;s diminishing returns to what people have to blog about Tom Friedman&#8217;s latest column. Facebook figures that people want to organize social information&#8211; where people are, what they&#8217;re doing&#8211; so that they can find it quicker. I already know what my 15 friends are up to quicker any other medium.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s another one: microformats. Where are microformats in the blog world? Who&#8217;s using them? In Facebook just entered 40 movies. I remember doing this on Amazon or B&amp;N years ago, and then figuring no one would ever see them again. This is a company that just has it figured out&#8211; and the developer platform is unstoppable.</p>
<p>Facebook, when you look at it, is inherently more conversational than blogs. A person&#8217;s &#8220;wall&#8221; carries comments from the person and their friends (as compared with Friendster, where the only thread is other testimonials.)</p>
<p>Why do I carry on like this? (I&#8217;ve been away from the citmedia blog for a few weeks and wanted to catch up). There&#8217;s certainly a temptation to stick in one&#8217;s comfort zone, and I suppose some (now) old-school bloggers might feel a bit afraid of the next new thing (imagine, being dismissed as an old-schooler&#8230;). I&#8217;m just trying to inspire a bit of analytics.</p>
<p>Still, I share your unspoken small-d democratic concern about facebook-uber-alles. Something *this* good shouldn&#8217;t be exclusive to one company. I&#8217;d still encourage people to develop good blog-and-CMS tools.</p>
<p>Enough of that. I suppose that Adamic, Hargittai, boyd, et al have already dug into this&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: OLDaily[中文版] &#187; Blog Archive &#187; 2007年7月30日</title>
		<link>http://citmedia.org/blog/2007/07/28/note-to-facebook-acquaintances-please-dont-message-me-there/comment-page-1/#comment-1746</link>
		<dc:creator>OLDaily[中文版] &#187; Blog Archive &#187; 2007年7月30日</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jul 2007 03:43:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 议论Facebook是一个spam机器。Peter Cashmore 写到公司纷纷禁止Facebook使用。 Dan Gillmor 请求他的读者&#8221;别在Facebook上向我发信了&#8221;。 Jason Calacanis, The Jason [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] 议论Facebook是一个spam机器。Peter Cashmore 写到公司纷纷禁止Facebook使用。 Dan Gillmor 请求他的读者&#8221;别在Facebook上向我发信了&#8221;。 Jason Calacanis, The Jason [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Dan Gillmor</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan Gillmor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jul 2007 21:15:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robert, I know you can do that. I can&#039;t imagine how you can add hundreds in a minute, though. At the very least each contact is a 5 second action. They need a batch-add.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert, I know you can do that. I can&#8217;t imagine how you can add hundreds in a minute, though. At the very least each contact is a 5 second action. They need a batch-add.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Scoble</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert Scoble</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jul 2007 20:51:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To add a new contact you click on &quot;confirm&quot; and then &quot;skip this step.&quot; I add hundreds every day in a minute or so. Don&#039;t feel pressured to add any details.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To add a new contact you click on &#8220;confirm&#8221; and then &#8220;skip this step.&#8221; I add hundreds every day in a minute or so. Don&#8217;t feel pressured to add any details.</p>
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